He’s not hostile, but he won’t really look me in the eye either. A month later, I now hear him having loud sex with women regularly, which I definitely never heard before. I was totally fine with it, and he acted like he was too, but it’s clear he’s not. I am the only gay guy (seemingly!) in a shared house of five guys, and this was very much unplanned. I am the guy who did the stupid thing from a hundred overheated online stories: I slept with my straight roommate when we were both drunk.
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